A Friend Has Relationship Problems

A Friend Has Relationship Problems...

Im here to share something that I seldom done before because not everyone want their relationship to have 3rd party or like people "campur tangan" their problems. Usually every couple out there will always solve their own problems but my friend that I know for...I think 6 months already if not mistaken. She share everything to me and...well Im very "kesian" her because she has a boyfriend who is always get drunk, go pub, and etc. Everytime public holiday such as like Christmas Day, New Year, and etc...The guy dint invite her go out celebrate together but go out with friends instead. Its so weird...I been asking myself about this guy. "Why his friends more important than his girlfriend?" There are still many questions but Im going to share a story that happen on saturday night, 7th Feb.

On that night...my friend was going out with her mum trying to find where his boyfriend is. She tells me that she been trying to call her boyfriend but dint get any answer at all. =.=" why like that one ar...so stupid guy. Then, she go this place called "Sky Bar" where her boyfriend is in there with...friends and his k-moi. My friend keep asking me wanna go in or not. I tell her the straight answer...go in. Well...she did and saw something that she dont wanna see at all. She tells me she saw her boyfriend and his k-moi holding hands together. BOOM!!! BUSTED!!! Well...If Im her...Im totally hurt that time. One weird part is she still smiling. Probably trying to get rid of the pain she just saw. I was in Internet Arena playing Call Of Duty 4. I get addicted to play it because this game require better skills to play it. Not like Counter Strike...=.=" Rush and always head shot and you win. But the game I play is different. Hahaha...okay back to story (Sorry about it). When I reach home...I call her asking what happen after she goes in the Sky Bar. She tells me everything. Im only got 3 words in my mind (OMG!!!). Then I think about it...why her boyfriend like that? So weird...She tells me she wanna break up with her boyfriend but her boyfriend cant let her go. I tell her a guy who cant let you go means he really really really really LOVE you so so so much. Even her mom tells her to give him "ANOTHER" chance...AGAIN. Lolz...this guy been given so much chances but still the same. On Sunday, my friend's "abang angkat" suggest her to meet her boyfriend and discuss everything. Tell him how her feel when she saw what happen last night. She did discuss with it and the guy been given "ANOTHER" chance...AGAIN to change himself. I dont know what conversation they have but I only know what decision she make. She wanted to break up but susah settle if her boyfriend cannot let her go. Probably scared something bad happen since her boyfriend WAS a bad person last time. Jenis suka bergaduh lar i mean...I did tell her if she still love her boyfriend give him another chance. Why not right? How bad is the guy also will change because of his mistakes. Even so many chances given already. If still love each other...why waste it? I can tell that this friend of mine totally "TOUGH". 0.o...everything she been through...is mostly bad situation. Totally honor her.

Now she waiting result from her boyfriend. The result she was talking about is the guy change his life style. Im not gonna say what kind of life style. "After few days then the guy will find her again." This part totally make me MAD!!! Why want few days??? Why cant change immediately??? YOU ARE A MAN...you should be able to handle it. You should be able to change yourself within one day. Girlfriend already hurting while discuss about her feeling but still need few days to change. CHANGE lar now...you already so LUCKY to have a girl that gives you so so so many chances. She still love you again even how bad you are. Apa lar...umur besar dari saya otak masih budak. Damn it...I tot im the one have a small brain...Cant believe this guy even worst than me. =.=" sohai kia...really kanasai. Super LUCKY already to have a girlfriend that love you even you are bad person last time, giving you so many chances to change yourself, and always find you when she need you. BUT...what you do??? HIYOOO...you dint treat her good. Sometimes I wish I meet this guy and wanna shout in front of his face and say "STUPID!!!!". Seriously...=.=

If I follow my feeling I would give my friend an answer to break up so that I can flirt her. Well...to tell the truth I do have feeling on her but I dont want to become "couple breaker who only think about his/her own goods"...I got sad also telling her to give this guy another chances. Yalar...sure sad lar because no chance to flirt her ma. But why not...better help them then become "couple breaker who only think about his/her own goods". As long as my friend happy...Im happy also. There is no way I wanna break them up so that I can flirt her. I even support this boyfriend of her because the guy got some same commons with me especially "cant let her go" that part. I still cant let go of my past relationship...Its still haunted me everytime I sleep. I keep dreaming about it everyday. That's why I hard to get enough sleep everyday. Mesti terbangun every 1-2 hours. But...past is past. I must keep moving forward. How big is the wall is I will always break through it.

Well actually I know what will happen already since I use "something"...Im not gonna tell what and how. But if I use "it"...I would end up so so so so tired because I dont need anything to activate "it". I just nid my own energy...I been using it for my own goods but I do fail a lot. Hehehe...only can success very very seldomly. ^^

Well anyway...I wish my friend and her boyfriend have better relationship. I wish them be happy together and I wish this "stupid guy" will REALLY change himself to better person. If only know using fist as a solution to all problems...I'll make you pay it worst in the future. Fighting is not a solution to all problems. I know lar you are "taiko"...but things will change. Everyone will change either good or bad. If you are "taiko"...settle every problems yourself lar. Name of "taiko" but has a brain of peanuts. Be smart and discuss peacefully...There will always some problems in anything you do even in relationship. Sure will happen like this...nothing free in this world. You want better relationship? You have to sacrifice something equal to it.

Okay...that's all for my share. I hope everyone enjoy reading and gives some comments. Please help me lar...I help people no one help me. Kesian la me...XD whehehehehehehe just kidding. Im just glad and happy I able to help someone. Even it hurts me too. Terpaksa tutup itu feeling and help her. hahahaha...